5 Signs You're Ready to Have the Independent Living Talk

It can be hard watching someone you love struggling to manage at home. Thankfully, independent living is a solution that could help your senior loved one thrive for many years to come. But how do you know when to have that conversation? Here are five signs you’re ready to have the independent living talk. 

1. You’re Worried About Your Loved One’s Health

If you’re worried about your senior loved one’s health, it’s time to have the independent living talk. When people have health conditions like diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and arthritis, the thought of something happening while they are alone is frightening. It’s natural to worry about whether your senior loved one would be able to call for help or if anyone nearby would notice if they were in trouble. 

A move to independent living allows seniors to retain their independence while also having peace of mind. Neighbors and staff are always nearby to help in an emergency.

2. Your Loved One Is Lonely

Loneliness is a major problem for seniors and places them at risk for health problems, including depression. So if you’ve noticed that your senior loved one isn’t socializing or seems lonely, it’s time to talk about independent living. 

Independent living communities are full of senior peers, so there’s always someone to talk to. And because independent living communities offer social and recreational activities, it’s easy to make new friends. 

3. Home Maintenance Has Become Challenging

Is your senior loved one having difficulty managing at home? Maybe the grass isn’t being mowed, the house isn’t staying clean, or repairs aren’t being made. As we age, it’s common to begin having difficulty cleaning, doing yard work, and even climbing stairs. So if home maintenance has become challenging, it’s a sign that you should talk about independent living.

Maintenance is included in the rent when you move to assisted living, so your senior loved one will be free from those worries. Plus, he or she will benefit from housekeeping and laundry services, too.

4. Your Loved One Has Mobility or Transportation Challenges

If your loved one has trouble getting around due to mobility or transportation challenges, you’re ready to have the independent living talk. Many common objects and features of homes, like stairs, bathtubs, rugs, and cords become hazards when someone has mobility challenges. And seniors who have difficulty driving or accessing transportation may become isolated or miss important medical appointments. Independent living can solve these problems.

Independent living communities are designed to be fully accessible, and transportation is available. Plus, seniors can take advantage of the many on-site amenities and activities, too.

5. Everyday tasks are problematic

If you’ve noticed your senior loved one is having difficulty with everyday tasks, you need to have the independent living talk. Sometimes, it becomes challenging to make meals or pay bills, for example. But if your loved one can otherwise manage, independent living is a perfect solution.

Rent is all inclusive at independent living facilities, so your loved one only needs to manage one bill instead of multiple utility bills. And meals are included, too, so you don’t need to worry that your loved one is going hungry. 

If you notice any of the above five signs in your senior loved one, you’re ready to have the independent living talk. Remember to highlight the positives and remind your loved one that moving to independent living will help them stay independent as long as possible. 

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